Traditional Funeral Services

Traditional Funeral Services

Traditional Funeral Services

Components of a Traditional Funeral

All traditional funerals generally contain the same main components. We have explained each component below:

1) Wake or Visitation

The purpose of a wake or visitation is to give people the opportunity to pay their respects to the deceased and the family. You often do not have this opportunity during the funeral service. At the visitation, the body is placed in a casket, and is either open or closed based on the family's preference. Often people say a short prayer by the casket then proceed to give their condolences to each family member. A good suggestion is to say something simple to each family member such as "I am sorry for your loss", especially if there are a lot of other guests. 

 2) Funeral Service

On the other hand, the funeral service is intended to honor the life of the deceased, remember what he/she contributed to our lives, and to say a final goodbye. The funeral service can take place at the funeral home chapel, a church, or at the graveside/cemetery. Typically prayers are said, hymns are sung, liturgy or religious passages are read, and the eulogy is given. 

3) Committal Service

After the funeral service has been complete, there is a vehicle procession to either the cemetery or the crematory depending on the type of disposition that has been chosen. If the deceased has chosen burial, the family and guests will congregate at the open plot or mausoleum. The Rite of Committal, the final set of prayers are given for the deceased, is said at this part of a traditional funeral service. 

 4) Funeral Reception

It is common for families to have a social gathering after the committal service with food and refreshments. It offers the family a chance to thank guests for attending, and for everyone to share memories and provide support to each other. 

The funeral service is the largest and arguably the most important component that we mentioned above. For the most part when people think about a traditional funeral service, people tend to imagine a Christian style funeral. A traditional funeral service has long been associated with religion. To further illustrate the funeral service component, we will examine it through the lens of a Christian style funeral. However, please remember that you can still have a traditional funeral that is not Christian. 

Breakdown of a Christian Funeral Service

A Christian funeral follows the 4 parts that we touched on above: the visitation, funeral service, committal service and finally the funeral reception. The funeral service part is where most of the specific Christian rituals take place. The funeral service is similar to any other Christian mass, however, with a few nuances. The main purpose of a Christian funeral service is to pray for the deceased, and to provide support to the grieving family. 

The funeral service starts with guests entering the church or chapel. It is recommended that guests arrive about 15-20 minutes prior to the start of the service to be respectful. There is then a small procession down the main aisle of the church by the immediate family and the pallbearers who are carrying the casket. In most instances, the casket will be placed in front of the altar, and the immediate family and pallbearers sit at the very front. Once everyone has gathered, the priest will give an opening statement that is either a prayer, a statement of support for the family, or a combination of both. After the opening statement, the mass officially begins. A traditional funeral service typically includes scripture readings from the Bible, a homily from the priest, prayers, and hymns. A homily or sermon is a speech given by the priest after the scripture has been read. The Priest will provide insight into the scripture readings and will relate it to the life of the deceased. Generally, the family will choose close relatives or friends to say the prayers and the scripture readings. The funeral service often concludes with the delivery of the eulogy. The eulogy typically covers the deceased’s life, his/her values, personality, accomplishments, etc. 

Since there are many sects of Christianity there will be small differences between a catholic funeral compared to a Lutheran funeral, but for the most part the funeral rituals remain the same. 

Popular Christian Funeral Hymns

Ave Maria 
By Andrea Bocelli
One Bread, One Body 
 By John Michael Talbot
It is Well With My Soul 
 By Philip Bliss & Horatio Spafford
Simple Gifts 
By Elder Joseph Brackett
Amazing Grace 
By Leann Rimes
The Lord is My Shepherd 
By Choir of Wells Cathedral
His Eye On the Sparrow 
By Charles Hutchinson Gabriel
Holy, Holy, Holy! Lord God Almighty 
By John B. Dykes & Neil Rondina

Popular Christian Funeral Readings

Death Is Swallowed Up In Victory: 1 Corinthians 15:51-57

A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians


Behold, I tell you a mystery. We shall not all fall asleep, but we will all be changed, in an instant, in the blink of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For that which is corruptible must clothe itself with incorruptibility, and that which is mortal must clothe itself with immortality. And when this which is corruptible clothes itself with incorruptibility and this which is mortal clothes itself with immortality, then the word that is written shall come about: "Death is swallowed up in victory. Where, O death is your victory? Where, O death is your sting?" The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

The Word of the Lord
Where Sin Increased, There Grace Abounded All The More: Romans 5:17-21
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Romans

For if, by the transgression of one person, death came to reign through that one, how much more will those who receive the abundance of grace and of the gift of justification come to reign in life through the one person Jesus Christ. In conclusion, just as through one transgression condemnation came upon all, so through one righteous act acquittal and life came to all. For just as through the disobedience of one person the many were made sinners, so through the obedience of one the many will be made righteous. The law entered in so that transgression might increase but, where sin increased, grace overflowed all the more, so that, as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through justification for eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
The Word of the Lord
All People Will Be Brought To Life through Christ: 1 Corinthians 15:20-24. 25-28
A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians

But now Christ has been raised from the dead, the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since death came through a human being, the resurrection of the dead came also through a human being. For just as in Adam all die, so too in Christ shall all be brought to life, but each one in proper order: Christ the first fruits; then, at his coming, those who belong to Christ; then comes the end, when he hands over the d and Father, when he has destroyed every sovereignty and every authority and power. For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death, for "he subjected everything under his feet." But when it says that everything has been subjected, it is clear that it excludes the one who subjected everything to him. When everything is subjected to him, then the Son himself will (also) be subjected to the one who subjected everything to him, so that God may be all in all.
The Word of the Lord
Come To Me...And I Will Give You Rest: Matthew 11:25-30

At that time Jesus said in reply, "I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike. Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him. "Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for your selves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light."
The gospel of the Lord.
Young Man, I Say To You, Arise: Luke 7:11-17

Jesus journeyed to a city called Nain, and his disciples and a large crowd accompanied him. As he drew near to the gate of the city, a man who had died was being carried out, the only son of his mother, and she was a widow. A large crowd from the city was with her. When the Lord saw her, he was moved with pity for her and said to her, "Do not weep." He stepped forward and touched the coffin; at this the bearers halted, and he said, "Young man, I tell you, arise!" The dead man sat up and began to speak, and Jesus gave him to his mother. Fear seized them all, and they glorified God, exclaiming, "A great prophet has arisen in our midst," and "God has visited his people." This report about him spread through the whole of Judea and in all the surrounding region.
The gospel of the Lord.
Be Prepared: Luke 12:35-40

Jesus told his disciples: "Gird your loins and light your lamps and be like servants who await their master's return from a wedding, ready to open immediately when he comes and knocks. Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant on his arrival. Amen, I say to you, he will gird himself, have them recline at table, and proceed to wait on them. And should he come in the second or third watch and find them prepared in this way, blessed are those servants. Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour when the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be prepared, for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come."
The gospel of the Lord.
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